Quick Thought Session 36: Your Worth Is Not Defined By How Someone Treats You

When we are by ourselves we are usually filled with unbreakable confidence that does not allow any negativity to penetrate us. We focus on the things that we want and we focus on making ourselves better without anyone’s negative views interfering with our “glowup”. We are self-assured human beings that know we got it going on.

But then we get into our groups, our conversations, our interactions with other humans. We notice how some treat us great and how others simply do not care for our existence or treat us in a way that we would never want to be treated. We go back and forth in our minds between “I’m great” to “I’m worthless” depending on who we are around and our vibe continuously fluctuates all day long.

If we focus on our inner being, meaning how we view ourselves, we can build up a confidence level that will not be affected by those around us. We can sustain our high vibrational level if we learn to perceive other views/actions of us as just “unwanted noise” and just turn down the volume. This mindset does take time but it begins with you being aware of how others affect your self-worth. Your self-worth never should be defined by anyone but yourself. Working on yourself is a daily process that involves reflection and some form of meditation. Take at least 15 minutes a day to self-reflect and meditate. Eventually you’ll be able to shut off the “unwanted noise” of everyone else and learn that your worth is not dependent on anyone else besides yourself. And yourself will eventually understand that your worth is unlimited. – Peace and Love

Quick Thought Session 32: Believe in Yourself Even When Things Become Difficult

There are times when the light is shining so brightly on you that you can absorb all the Vitamin C and become super confident. You feel energized and charged with a magnetism to get things moving. You are radiating with an invisible force that propels you to start something that you never thought you could or would before.

But then you hit a roadblock and you start to doubt if what you had started was really worth it to begin with. Things are not manifesting the way you had envisioned them. Your ducks are not lining up in a row and you feel exhausted, confused, and a strong desire to give up.

I have been there. Hell, I am there right now. I feel like sometimes what I am doing isn’t worth all the effort and that no one will even see the light of day of this blog (thank you to the ones that do) and I feel like giving up. But I also know that deep in side of me that I am seeking out my life’s purpose. This is what drives me everyday to sit at my computer and write. I just write and whatever flows, flows. I have to learn to accept that things take time and what I want to manifest will eventually come, but it may not be the way that I have planned.

My advice to you, take that feeling that you have in the pit of your stomach and use it to keep going. You know in your heart and in the back of your mind, that whatever you want, will come true. You just can’t give up. Doubting yourself is normal and doubt will always be there, however, you must learn to push doubt aside and fight for what you want. There will be times, when you will quit. Take those times to reset, relax, meditate, and reevaluate your game plan. Once you take these mini-breaks of self doubt and reassess what you want and how you’re going to get it, the journey will become a bit easier everyday. You got this booboo!

Quick Thought Session 31: Don’t Compare Yourself To Others

It’s so easy to compare ourselves to other people, especially when we are programmed that way since we are little. We are taught that “you should be like so and so”, “why couldn’t you try as hard as so and so”, or “look at so and so, they are so put together”. These innocent statements were made to push us to become better people by trying to convince us to not be hesitant, not scared, and more sure of ourselves but it has just caused us so much inner turmoil and a never ending battle with our self image.

We must learn to not allow how we were brought up to control our present and future dealings in shaping our views of ourselves. We must look inward, oppose to looking outward, in helping us define who we are. I know this is easier said than done but we are all a work in process and every day we should strive to be better and not allow past grievances to rule our mental capacity. We have so much to offer the Universe individually and when we compare ourselves to others, it suppresses our own individual greatness. Strive to be great by being who you are and who you are is not so and so. – Peace and love.

Love Letter #29

Zodiac zodiac can’t you see

I was made for you and you were made for me

both Earth signs destined to intertwine

for all the love of mankind

lingering in bed

kissing and sweating after all things said

Speaking truth about our dreams

becoming the ultimate future dream team

Venus and Saturn, the best of both worlds

I was made to be your compatible girl

Career oriented and family values too

Made to love every fucking inch of you

Cook you dinner and shower you with affection

We were made to love, we were made to destine

Your overprotectiveness and your strong willed nature

made me want to take you and mate with you forever

but as life and not the stars would have it

our love was to end, we had to quit

before we had the chance to fuck with it

Though time, space and people will always separate us

our love will pass on the lips of others

as another worldly dimension 

Thank God I found you

I hope to love you again

once we both get to heaven

The “Love Letters” Series will be a collection of poetry written for and about love. Please comment below if you’re enjoying my thoughts and words. Some of these poems can be read as “Spoken Word” or a “Rap Song” or with a “Taylor Swift” angst, lol. – Peace and Love

Love Letter #27

I am a bad ass bitch
Who can get any dick that I please
Don’t you ever underestimate me
I got these
Thick ass thighs and an ass you can smack
Lips you would want to kiss forever
Take me home and meet your fucking mother
I am a bad ass bitch
Don’t take no shit from no one
Baby I am not the one, I best be done
With your games and your conniving trifling ways
I will slash you up if you misbehave
I am a bad ass bitch
You can’t change me
Don’t make me your blow up doll
Fuck you, mother fucker it’ll be an all out brawl
Thinking you can tame me
Naw baby boy I was meant to be free
I am a bad ass bitch
You see me coming I’ll make you twitch
But I am here to just ease my itch
I am a bad ass bitch

The “Love Letters” Series will be a collection of poetry written for and about love. Please comment below if you’re enjoying my thoughts and words. Some of these poems can be read as “Spoken Word” or a “Rap Song” or with a “Taylor Swift” angst, lol. – Peace and Love