Saying “Goodbye” is such a difficult process and we tend to hold onto the good and forget all the times we have felt disappointed, hurt and confused by other people. We begin to value our worth based on how others treat us and we define our self worth by how much time and energy others give us. But maybe we need to shift our energy.
We do not need to necessarily say goodbye to people who may or may not value us, we just need to focus our energy inward. It is not anyone else’s responsibility to make you feel “worthless” or “worthy” accept your own. Learning to focus inward is a life long process but once we do that more often we begin to not feel “offended” by others (supposedly) indiscretions. We learn to brush things off and move on with our lives by fulfilling what we need ourselves. Now, I am not advocating anyone who abuses you emotionally or physically or financially, to put up with any nonsense. Quite the opposite. Learn to let them go and learn that what they are doing is a reflection of them and not of you. Shift your energy to what you would like in yourself and what you value in yourself. Eventually, you will be surrounded by people who vibe with you. What more could you ask for? -Peace and Love